Soul mates.

Earlier today I've heard about this great conversation about soul mates from a talk show - the debate of its realness, and how it is for different people.

In that show, one of the ladies contradicts this idea. She's more realistic about the situation. She is happily married and admits that her husband might not be her "soul mate". That the idea of having one is shady to begin with. What if your "soul mate" lives in China hence making it difficult for you to meet? Not every one meets in the real world hence you end up with someone you may want to believe is your soul mate. And there's nothing wrong with that. Her point is that you make decisions for yourself(she blatantly admits that she can be happy with someone else other than her husband); point is that you make decision for the right guy for you and the idea of having a soul mate is somewhat made up (like the spark in every relationship).

For me, I would like to believe that soul mates are real - even though I have yet to experience the idea of it. I guess I'm one of the many people in the world that needs to believe that there's something great out there for everyone, waiting to be found. It is important so that we look forward for everyday till we find our soul mate. And yes if he lives in China then I'll prolly book the first flight and find him there.

I'm so idealistic right now. I find it empowering and different (good different).

All I know is that I may or may not find him today, or tomorrow or next week - but if I give up now, then I will probably not get to know this great man for me.